We live in a fast-paced world filled with distractions, distractions, distractions. And the truth of the matter is that as we are distracted more and more, we are inclined to get distracted.
You can’t run out of something you could run out of. That’s the thing about distractions. We tend to think the distractions are a side effect, but they’re not.
When I was in college I used to get distracted by my friends and other students. To this day I still get distracted by my friends. I find that the more I get distracted, the more I actually want to get distracted.
It’s probably not a coincidence that one of the greatest distractions I had as a freshman was my friends. I was a good student, and I was good looking, and I was a nerd and I always had plenty of distractions. I was a good friend. But once I got distracted by my friends, I had to turn to something else.
The fact is that a lot of us don’t really take the time to really focus on our relationships with people. This is something that I think is especially prevalent among introverts. I’m pretty sure that if you asked introverts what they wanted most from a relationship, they probably would tell you that they don’t want to be tied down and that they would like a bit of room to explore.
That is indeed true. But some introverts have a hard time being fully engaged in real life because they have such a hard time taking initiative. I am a great example of this because I need to initiate and I can get so stuck in my own ideas. I think this is because I am a person who is very aware of my surroundings and my surroundings tell me so, even if I dont understand them.
And that’s why I think it is very important for introverts to keep their eyes open, be aware of their surroundings, and to be able to communicate with them.
My guess is that introverts don’t like to be told what to do, and that’s why they have such difficulty initiating action. This is also why they usually prefer to do stuff on their own.
You might think that introverts are always doing things on their own. This is not always the case. I for one was pretty much given free rein in high school to do as I wanted, but that was the only time I was really free to do so. I was given freedom, but that was because I was an introvert and that was not because of my own choice.
This is the reason why the majority of introverts tend to have a hard time initiating action. It’s not because they have poor decision making abilities, but rather because they lack the confidence that they are capable of doing anything, and thus have a hard time doing them.
